“Soft Kitty, Warm Kitty…” That’s a song from a popular TV show. It’s a song of comfort. What song would you want to hear if you were sick? How do you cheer your soul when you’re down in the dumps? Struggles in life and hardship look alot like a cross some days. I don’t know anyone that wants to embrace a struggle in life. In this RefTalk we’ll consider why the cross is a necessary, yes even, a dear part of life.